A sudden bad shot right on the chest

Had an unexpected conversation last night. It was a really bad shot right on the chest. (Some said) It's not my fault, and it's not her fault either. (Some said) We see this thing going on from different perspective. Yet she doesn't want to try to work it out, and if she thinks so, I might think it's not worthed. It's not whose loss... but it's just pity...